Shara Grove Holistics

A book from some of Dolores’s earlier work, I was drawn to this for that exact reason. I’ve read book one and two of The Convoluted Universe, as well as her book Horns Of The Goddess, I picked Legacy From The Stars to mostly get an insight into Dolores’s perspective on ‘alien’ life, space, galaxies and all things relating before she delved deeper into.

Legacy From The Stars was published in 1996 which is the year I was born. It’s been an interesting read because from the time of my birth up until the past 7-9 years or so, alien life was something that I was incredibly skeptical on. So, seeing she had published this book the year I was born, I was curious to see what was going on around that time and before.

The book itself for the most part is pretty mundane in comparison to the other books I’ve read of hers. You can tell this book is the book that pretty much just scratches the surface of what she will later on discover through her work however, the opening chapter of this book really grabbed me.

Dolores is very open in saying how her discoveries have completely changed her perspectives and beliefs, and that in itself I find admirable. We live in a world that doesn’t allow much room for flexibility and change. I know for myself and my own experiences, I’ve been put into boxes for most of my life, and yes some of it comes from my own undoing’s, but I believe for the most part, it comes from being around people who don’t or haven’t changed much in their life.

We spend most of our learning years being taught what is right, wrong, factual, proven, myth, false, truth, legends and/or bullshit. There is no room for our own explorations, our own experiments, our own intuition, our own deeper knowings. We aren’t given access to the part of ourselves that allows us to figure out what feels right to us, what feels wrong, what feel true and what feels false. We’re shut off from a vital part of ourselves that allows us to grow and evolve. I believe this results in disconnection, low vibrations, repeating of incarnations (lessons not being learnt), inferiority and superiority.

When you shut other beliefs, perspectives or whatever you want to call it in this instance, when you shut them down you are shutting a part of your brain out. You are holding yourself back. You’re being your own block, you’re keeping yourself in a box where you believe it will make you feel happy, right, strong in your opinions and worth etc. but is it actually? Or does it do more damage than repair?

‘My mind would never have been opened to these new possibilities if I had contended that they did not fit the accepted pattern, or that because they sounded crazy they could not be true.’

Imagine if she had shut down the information that was coming to her because of her own personal beliefs. Imagine if she didn’t allow the room for change or the room to admit that she might be wrong. Imagine all that would be lost both from her clients and within herself.

Why is it so hard for some people to refuse flexibility? Is it down to conditioning? Is it all psychological? Is it generational? Is it fear over potentially being wrong? Is it fear of change? Is it personal? Whatever it is I don’t think I’ll ever be able to understand it.

I’ve been someone who was very set in her ways when it came to beliefs. I didn’t allow other beliefs and possibilities in because that would mean I’d have to change who I was. It meant that other people would notice the change and question it (whether it came from a curious point of view or suspicious).

I remember a time when I was very young. I didn’t believe in aliens or other beings out there. I believed it was just us and once we died we died because there was an end to everything right? I remember having this discussion randomly with my mum to which she disagreed with me. She didn’t fully believe in aliens or other beings, but she was suspicious and had unanswered questions. I straight out shut her down in a way that sounded as though I was right and I was not open to change. But ever since that moment, I began to question our presence in the universe.

We’re aware, but I don’t think we are fully aware of the impact adult figures have on young minds. Seeing and hearing my mum be open and curious about something that I was so sure on changed everything. That one moment has over the years led to this moment, and has led to this magnificently open brain that I have. All because I saw she wasn’t afraid to question. She wasn’t afraid to be different and to think away from what we are taught to believe in.

Approaching life with an open and curious mind allows for new possibilities, but not only that, it allows you to create YOUR life! It allows you to form YOU. It allows you to break free from the herd and be individual. Be magical and magnetic. It allows you to be intriguing, to be interesting and to glow your own way. It makes you stand out from the crowd. It makes you have something to talk about. It gives you passions, hobbies and a zest for life.

When you look at it like that it’s no wonder the educational system does more damage to our mental, spiritual and emotional health than we realise (or later realise). Our poor curious, developing free child minds are boxed in and dumbed down. They’re drained, exhausted and taught to be obedient. They’re taught that life on this planet is only about success, fortune and fame. Creativity, curiosity, imagination and individuality are seen as being inhuman.

Of course parental figures and communities come into this too. Parents that push their beliefs onto their childs, trying to mould them thinking they are doing what is best. Communities that live in fear because it keeps them in line. Parents that force their children to mature early. Communities that have no respect for other communities.

It’s everywhere. We’re dumbing down the minds of the people that can bring change to this world.

If we want change, we need to raise that change.